Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Dragon Tales, Tales from the trip and bushy tale experiences


Our trip started out wonderful. Probably our favorite experience from the first part was in Tennessee. At the NC Tenn border there was a huge rock slide that closed the highway. They suggested a new route that would of added an hour 1/2 to our trip. We decided to cut through a smaller road that looked to be a much shorter distance.

We soon found ourselves in the Smokey Mountains. Not only were we in the smokey Mountains but we were on a world famous road for bikers and sports car enthusiasts. This road is nicknames "The Dragon" by no accident. There were 318 turns in 11 miles. It was both fun and scary to drive. At one point we stooped at a scenic overlook and my brakes were smoking. I had never driven such a road and rode my brakes way too much. Conan Man then alerted me I should drive in D2 and it should be much better. It was fine after that but still pretty tricky. See the video here someone posted.



The views were beautiful. We got to see it in the fall with bright yellow, orange and red trees surrounding us. The scenic overlooks provided great places to stop and rest, take a few pics and let scrubby our bunny out to stretch, On a leash of course.


The funny thing is at one point he slipped out of his leash pointing out to us it was a bit too large for his little body and he ran under some bushes, as bunnies naturally do. I screamed "Get Him! I am not going to torture my daughter any more this week then the move already has!" Conan Man , our hero , caught him and all was well. We did not, and have not used that leash since.
We did get a cute pic of Conan Man walking a bunny on a pink leash. So masculine right?



I loved seeing so much open land while driving across the states. I love our country. I also was amazed at how quickly land changed as we crossed state lines. One state would be alot of trees and then almost instantly it would be all flat and crop lands. Our drive across Wyoming was one of the hardest but most beautiful drives we had.
The wind was blowing the whole time at about 45 mph. making it hard to handle the Durango without getting exhausted holding the steering wheel so firm. The distance we could see was unknown to me before. I was absolutely awe struck. We were blessed with dry roads and great visibility to where we could see for miles and miles ahead and behind us. The sky at dawn was fantastic. I wished I had more time and better lenses to spend taking photos.

I did manage to get quite bored. Bored enough on the straight road where it was just Conan Man and I following each other so I took pics of who else but Moi. I felt like a 12 year old again. I used to take pics of myself all the time. I thought, why not now. It was quite entertaining. For a small time.



That's all for now. More to come soon about the wedding and some fun Utah activities.

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Monday, November 9, 2009

Goodbye W.



Wow. What a whirlwind of a week.
I am still amazed we are across the country from our old place called home.
It seemed like forever when we knew we were supposed to move here. It felt like it would never happen. I found my self aching inside for change. I found myself aching inside for adventure and new surroundings. Time seemed to slip by as slow as when you are a little child and are waiting to grow up.
Then all of a sudden we did it. We actually moved our family successfully across the country. We moved our family with much amazing help of friends and family. Friends of mine that came to help me clean and pack. Friends that helped me learn more about the areas we were looking at.

Family, wow. My parents are amazing. We had my brothers wedding in South Dakota on the 29th and my parents drove all three of our girls across the country for us to the wedding. We arrived a day or two later in time for the wedding then we left a day earlier then them to get into our apartment and get things unloaded and ready for them to arrive.

Drive through Wyoming. Heavenly skies.

My parents drove with a 7 year old, a 4 year old, and a 3 year old across the country. That is no easy task! Especially for empty Nester's who sometimes lack energy of a 20 something year old. They were truly blessed with extra energy and patience to complete the trip safely and still love being around the girls.
I knew when they left it would be hard. The girls have always lived a mile down the street from my parents. We have always had the luxury of driving to stop by and say hi. We have been so blessed to have free babysitting so many times for Conan Man and I to have date nights weekly and take little weekend trips.


The girls would tinker with Grandpa in the backyard gardening, building campfires, or whatever project he came up with. They loved playing with Grandma, especially when she helped them paint, and do crafts, or when she would sing to them in French.
I had a hard time not crying and still tear up thinking about my girls being apart from them. It is hard yet I am so thankful they had those years to build close friendships with them and I know they will continue to have that over the years.

We love our new place called home. For years I have tried to avoid mentioning where I lived. Never said city names. People either just knew because they know us or guess from things I wrote. The closest I mentioned where we lived on this blog is "The South".
Well, I cannot hide it any longer. I love love love where I live and cannot help but want to blog about it. Utah is one of the most beautiful and peculiar places I have ever been too. It has definitely been a small dosage of culture shock to us. We love it though.There will be many more blog posts about our adventures here for sure.

Every morning I get to open our blinds to see views of TALL HUGE REAL mountains. Not the "fake" ones back home in NC. NC mountains are pretty but...These mountains make NC mountains seem like hills. Both states have their beauty. That is for sure. I know I will miss the beauty of NC. I will miss it, but not bad enough to go back anytime soon.

Conan Man and I lived there for almost 9 years and it was a wonderful 9 years. When we got married we never imagined ourselves settling in one place for the rest of our lives. We love adventure and travel too much. We both knew it was time for a change. Changing states is a great way to do that. Starting school Diving in head first with 4 kids is also a HUGE change. We are in for a whole new lifestyle. I am thankful for it though. We will not have an easy road ahead. We are in in for the long haul but are super excited for what our future holds. We know what our plan is and we know why we are doing this. We also know we cannot do this without the Lords help. We are not alone.

The girls do not understand completely but they are excited about their new home. They are excited to live so close to mountains with snow on the top. They are excited to live near so many LDS Temples and they are excited to live near there little cousins.

Our new apartment at first was a bit disappointing to me for a few reasons I will not get into. But after being there a week I have been able to see how much nicer it is then our old one and how it is such a blessing to us right now. I have so much extra storage space and an extra spare bedroom to use for home school, craft, sewing room. It is going to be such a blessing to use that instead of trying to cram it all in one small dining room area. Organization will be key to having a successful schedule and utilizing the room to help life be easier with the kids, not harder.


In a weird way I feel like a Pioneer. We knew we were supposed to move here. We knew it would not be easy. I had many days wondering if we will ever get there. Would we actually arrive? How would we do it? Although we both decided to sell or give away all of our furniture to make the move easier it was not easy for me some days.

I had to remind myself of the big picture. I had to remind myself that the things we own do not define who we are. It is the path we lead and the example we set for our children that does. We, like Pioneers in a covered wagon, packed as much as we could that was most precious to us in our cars and left the rest behind. We left it for a new life. A better one. The one piece of furniture we did manage to bring was a rocking chair given to me from my friend Sadie. I love it. I love the shape of it and in the next few weeks will be transforming it into a new color and changing the fabric of the seat to match my style.

Although this is exciting to me what I love most about it, is rocking in it and reading to my girls. Having them ask me to "rock and cuddle" with them is the best. This chair will always remind me of our trek west. Just as some Pioneers trekked west and most times were only able to bring a few items. I like to imagine I have more in common with them now. Now that I brought just one rocking chair and left the rest behind. It makes my days that much more durable. I feel so blessed even if my apartment sits empty of furniture for a short time. I have a rocking chair to spend time with them in and that is what I hope they will remember about this move. I know it is a memory I will not forget. Who knew a rocking chair could bring so much joy and comfort.

(and laughter once you scroll down and see the awesome job my husband and his friends did roping and covering the chair to the back of our car.)

By the time we arrived in South Dakota the plastic was so ripped up it seriously reminded us of a mummy. We had to have it recovered in a thicker plastic to protect it from rain and snow for our drive to Utah. It arrived safely and has no damage. operation duck tape the rocking chair: Success.

ps. stay tuned for more pics from our trip and more stories of our adventures, There are so many it will take time. Especially since I do not have our internet hooked up yet. So right now I am at Barnes and Noble using their wifii. Usually I like to respond to your emails and comments more often but this next few weeks I will be slower then normal. Thanks for understanding.


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Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Our move to Utah was not an easy task. First we decided that hauling all of our stuff would be too expensive. We chose to have a yard sale as we accumulated so much stuff that really didn't matter all that much to us in the long run. The yard sale was a success. Then we weighed in the options on furniture. We could take what we had, pay close to 3k to uhaul plus gas, or send it in a pod. When we really thought about it it just wasn't worth it. For around the same costs we could just replace what we had. I knew replacing the furniture wouldn't happen all at once but I also knew I would love my home so much more after.

In 8 years of marriage we still had alot of furniture given to us. Nothing wrong with Free by all means. Free is great. Because we had what we needed it was hard for us to justify going out and buying brand new furniture if we didn't really need a new table, or couch. What we had worked. It was functional but definitely not at the moment stylish.

After blogging entered my world, more then ever before I created ideas of ways to take what I had and re design it into a super stylish home that complimented our personalities. This poses a bit of a difficult task when in a 3rd level apartment, no garage or driveway or backyard to do long, overhauls on furniture. Painting Sanding etc.

So my project ideas were procrastinated to the point that we had to make a choice. Take it ugly, or leave it and start over. So I chose to get on board with my husbands suggestions and just start over.

We are now looking around for simple in expspenive ideas to create a home atmosphere we love. A place where we not only enjoy family time, but also feel happy to entertain, teach our children and create our little Heaven on earth. Where we can escape to and love.

I have found a few ideas My husband loves as well. We will have to tweak these ideas obviously to work with living in a rental apartment but it is doable. It will take time but I thought I would show you some pictures/ideas that inspire me and are close to the mood we want to create.


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Jessica Claire, an amazing photographer shows on her site her before and after studio pictures. I fell in love with this and we have both decided to take this as inspiration for our Living room.



The simple couch for us will most likely be an Ikea Klippen sofa in black.
Easy for me to dress up with custom self made pillows in fabrics I love.
Next, The two funky chairs. They SO remind me of my old vintage chairs I left behind for a friend to love and enjoy. I had plans to reupholster these babies


but alas, I will find my new favorite funky chairs. I love the idea of them in velvet. Adds a great touch of new textures into the room. I also love the shape of Jessica's chairs.

Next, I LOVE the theme of black, white, with two accent colors. The green wall is AWESOME! I love it so much I thought I wanted a GREEN wall. My hubby suggested maybe we go with Fushia. What a dream! A rare occasion to have a husband who actually says you can paint a wall in the main living area so girly as fuchsia. I may still opt for green. Only because of some other ideas I have that I think will be complimented much better with a green wall vs. Fuchsia.



Next, Look at that wall! She had a carpenter friend custom make the molding design for her. This diea is not totally feasible for us in a rental but easily could be recreated on square wood boards painted white then hung on the wall. Something we could then take with us when we leave to a new place.

The tv stand is not my favorite. I do like having a tv in our Living room for the convience of watching a movie with friends or keeping an eye on the kiddos as they watch a movie. We do not like however, tv's being a huge, if not the only focal point in the room. These days there are so many fun options for tvs in large size, great picture and sound. There are thankfully many options we could look into to hide it when we are not using it when we evenutally buy one.

I do love the simplicity of this room but would definitly need to add more elements to make the room ours. I am thinking a painting like this would be a dream.


Not sure where it would go but it has been my favorite and a dream of mine for years to have. It would go well with my love of decorating using traveling themes. Photos from Conan Mans hitchhiking in Ireland. Pictures I took in Paris. Items we collected from Hungary, France, Ireland, Phillipines, Seattle, Oak island, and other favorite places we have visited together or individually.

My next post I will share my dream ideas on a simple dining room that goes along with this theme in the LR.



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Saturday, October 31, 2009

What a week!

I am back and blogging again!

One week of driving is quite a work week. We arrived in our new state of beautiful Utah today! We left on Monday, drove from NC to Nashville. Then drove from Nashville to Omaha, Nebraska. Then left Omaha and drove to Rapid City South Dakota where my brothers wedding was. Then we left Rapid City and drove almost all the way through Wyoming. We ended up staying in Rock Springs to rest and arrived this morning in Utah.

I love to travel. I love to see new sights. This trip was fun for many reasons. We were blessed to see so much of our country. The contrasts from state to state was unbelievable. Also, We knew we were driving it one way and did not have to dread driving back a week or two later. We had a new home to look forward to.

We both drove in separate cars holding our stuff. It was quite a sight to be seen. The Lord blessed us in so many ways to prepare for this trip, to drive through it safely and to have a new place to call home when we got here. I am overwhelmed with the amount of things I have to share with you. It will have to be spread out in a few different posts for sure.

As I was driving the views were often so beautiful I wished I could stop. I didn't many times because of time. I did however manage to get some pics from the windows and a few scenic overlooks that I will be posting soon.

My girls are still in South Dakota with Grandma and Grandpa and will arrive tomorrow night to see there new home. I hope they love this state as much as I already do.

More news to come soon!
Hugs to all of our NC friends. We love you!


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Sunday, October 25, 2009

CRAZY TIMES.

I wanted to just check in and say hello. The past week has been absolutely crazy.
Crazy fun, crazy stressful, crazy emotional and crazy painful.

The Crazy stressful.

Packing up an apartment with kids running around is not an easy task. But alas, it had to be done. I have spent months purging stuff out of my apartment and it seems there was only more coming out of my walls somewhere and no progress was being made. I cannot even count the amount of trash bags, goodwill runs, that we have had. We had a great yard sale and sold almost everything. Such a blessing! I think being 7 months prego adds a bit to the stress as well. Just because Prego ladies tend to stress a bit more sometimes.

The Crazy Fun.

My last week here and my good friend Vicki threw me a going away party Girls night out. SO many of my friends from church came and we had fun chatting away without interruptions. We ate yummy food and Vicki even made my favorite ,..Hot Apple Cider! Yum! Her taco soup was also soo good I might just havr to post the recipe up here soon for you to try. Super easy too. i cannot wait to make it once we are in our new place and I am back cooking again.
My friends also came to help me clean and pack some stuff up this week. My friend Jenny who is an amazing woman came on Friday with the sister missionaries to help me. I am so thankful for them. The things they did, the trash they carried to the dumpster all would have been so difficult had I been alone. Vicki came one night and packed the girls closet up. That meant so much to me. It has been so nice to not have to worry about it. I love my friends! We had fun while doing it all and that is what is most important.

The crazy painful.

Two parts to this one.
It is crazy painful to be 7 months prego and trying to clean and pack and sort and juggle kids. I have wanted to curl up under a blanket some days and make it all go away. Poof. Snap my finger and have the room cleaned the kids tidy and the packing done. Sort of a mix between a Mary Poppins and Merlin act. But always, just when it feels I cannot go anymore a friend would stop by to help, give me a call, birng me a treat or just smile. So many blessings coming my way that would help the pregnancy pains not be so difficult to bear.

The Crazy Emotional.

Watching my oldest daughter hug and say good bye to her best friends has got to be one of the hardest parts of this move. I myself am excited. I am not scared, nervous to afraid of change, a move a new city. To me its like traveling. I cannot travel as much as I want to right now in life so moving is just the best for me right now. New experiences, and sights to see. New friends and new stories to share. To a seven year old it is her life. She has been telling everyone she is not moving and she is staying here with her Grandma.
The girls left Friday with Grandma and Grandpa to head west for not just the move but also my brothers wedding ont he 29th in South Dakota. When the car was packed and the kids were in
and they were ready to go she jumped out and ran away to the backyard saying she was not moving. Grandma went to console here and all ended up being well. Upon hearing that news I cried. I felt so bad I wasn't there for her at that moment. I know she will love Utah and will love it even more when she makes new friends. It can be so emotional challenging to move though.

Well, I didn't mention this above but dealing with the CRAZY CRAIGSLIST can be all of the above. We last minute was able to sell off all of our furniture. My sofa is the last that did not go. We waited all day yesterday for someone to come pick it up. I could have had a few sales to other people but she offered more then showed up and didn't want it. :( Talk about frustrating. But, all in all I am SO THANKFUL for the sales we did have and the things I did learn about dealing with Craigslist. That will be a post all in its own. One day. After we settle. After I tell you all about our road trip and the wedding and the kids, and Utah and anything else I feel like.

Hugs to all and farewell to NC.
We will miss the South so much but man oh man
I am sure excited to see what living in the west will be all about.

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